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Top 5 Most Insane Dictators

Were they insane when they rose to ultimate power, or did the power they possessed cause these men to become deranged? History is filled with dictators who had one thing in common … they thought more of their own personal wealth, power and glory than for the well-being and happiness of their fellow countrymen.

Is there something about absolute power that drives a person absolutely insane? Let’s take a look at five dictators who should help you make up your mind.

Francois Duvalier

Haitian dictator and medical doctor Francois Duvalier held power in Haiti from 1957 to 1971.

Duvalier claimed to be Baron Samdi, the Voodoo spirit of death. He also claimed responsibility for John F. Kennedy’s assassination by way of a Voodoo curse. He sent someone to collect the air around Kennedy’s grave which he would then use to control Kennedy’s soul.

During his reign, Duvalier indoctrinated Haitian children with a political catechism that included his variant of The Lord’s Prayer which began like this, “Our Doc, who are in the National Palace for life, hallowed be Thy name by present and future generations …”

In 1958, Clement Barbot led a failed coup to overthrow Duvalier. When a manhunt failed to find Barbot, Duvalier imagined Barbot had transformed into a black dog. Duvalier subsequently had all black dogs in Haiti shot.

Kim Jong-il

Kim Jong-il was the supreme leader of North Korea between 1994 and 2011. Beliefs circulated in his “official” biography stated that Kim had the power to control the weather and that he neither urinated nor defecated.

Kim was a huge fan of James Bond films which he believed to be documentaries. Perhaps that’s why he traveled with his own bevy of beautiful women referred to as his “Pleasure Squad.”

North Korean news sources were forced to report that he was the greatest golfer to ever exist, consistently finishing 38 under par and averaging four or five holes-in-one every single game.

While his people suffered and starved under economic hardships, he lived lavishly. Special flights from Japan delivered expensive cuts of sushi. He had a 1,000-bottle wine cellar and over 20 thousand Hollywood movies. He spent $350,000 on brandy and $20 million importing 200 Mercedes-Benz luxury sedans.

Francisco Macias Nguema

Francisco Macias Nguema was dictator of Equatorial Guinea from 1968 until his overthrow in 1979. As the son of a witch doctor, Nguema believed he too had magical powers. After saying that his powers would keep the power plant running, the entire capital remained in darkness. He shut down hospitals and Western medicine was banned in favor of his witch doctor powers.

He was responsible for the exile or death of more than half of the 300,000 people who lived in Equatorial Guinea, giving the nation the nickname, “Dachau of Africa.” His execution methods, which included crucifixion, were gruesome. He executed the governor of the public bank and hid all the money under his jungle hut bed. He ordered the execution of all his mistresses’ former lovers. He had a huge collection of human skulls which he used to talk to ghosts.

He abolished the word “intellectual” and closed all libraries and schools. All people who wore glasses were executed.

He changed the national motto to, “There is no other God than Macias Nguema.”  He was executed by firing because his magical doctor powers couldn’t stop bullets either.

Saparmurat Niyazov

Saparmurat Niyazov was first elected president of Turkmenistan and then later became dictator, serving between 1985 and 2006.

Niyazov authored a book, Ruhnama, which means “Book of the Soul.” It was to be given equal respect to the Quran in mosques, otherwise the mosques faced demolition. School students were required to read it. People had to memorize it to get a driver’s license. Niyazov informed the citizens of Turkmenistan that he had an agreement with Allah, that anyone reading the book three times would automatically go to heaven. Niyazov even sent a copy into space for aliens to read.

He instituted many strange rules and regulations. People were to chew on bones to preserve their teeth instead of seeking dental care. Recorded music, car radios and lip-syncing were outlawed. Young men were not allowed to grow beards or long hair.

Saddam Hussein

Saddam Hussein, who ruled over Iraq between 1979 and 2003, based his regime on one of his hero’s – Stalin. He tortured and murdered thousands of his own people, believing he had to rule with an iron fist to keep his country intact – it was divided by religion and ethnicity.

Although using blood to write the Quran is forbidden in every sect, branch and offshoot of Islam, that didn’t stop Hussein. He had blood regularly withdrawn over a two-year period – a total of 27 liters. This blood was used to transcribe 605 pages of the Quran. Blood donations experts say it would take at least nine years to safely donate that much blood.

Speaking of books, Zabiba and the King, is thought to be written by Hussein. The CIA isn’t convinced he wrote it, however, but credits him with at least supervising its writing.

How To Help Your Child Learn Healthy Eating Habits

If you’re like most parents, you want your children to grow up healthy, strong, and happy — and you may be worried that you won’t be able to teach them healthy eating habits. Most children seem to have a natural preference for foods and beverages that are high in sugar and fat, and parents often struggle with getting them to even try healthier alternatives. Teaching healthy food habits doesn’t have to be a battle, though. Here’s what you can do to help your child learn positive eating habits. 

Involve Children in Food Shopping

Children are more likely to want to try different foods if they’re involved in the shopping and selection process. Once children are out of the toddler stage, taking them for short shopping trips to the supermarket can spark an early interest in food, and even young children can help pick out their favorite fruits. Another way to engage children in food shopping is to make visits to your local farmers market a regular family activity. 

Involve Your Children in Meal Preparation

Even children as young as six or seven can help with simple meal preparation tasks. Keep in mind that the point of this is to create positive associations, so make it a pleasant, happy time. Young children can help wash fruits and vegetables, while those over seven with better fine-motor skills can peel potatoes, make salads, and mix basic ingredients. Children over the age of 12 should be able to prepare simple meals themselves. 

Eat Meals as a Family 

Eating as many meals together gives parents and older siblings a chance to model good eating habits. Family meals provide another opportunity to create positive associations around food. This should be a low-stress time of day, so don’t make a big deal out of it if your child refuses to eat certain foods. 

Plant a Family Garden

Because children are naturally curious, growing a family garden provides an excellent way to get their attention in a good way — and they’ll be far more likely to want to eat produce from the garden than its counterpart from the supermarket. Freshly picked food grown in home gardens tends to taste much better than grocery store fare and is more nutritious. 

Avoid Forbidding Treats and Sweets

Children are typically drawn to anything that’s forbidden, so telling them they can’t have certain food items usually backfires. This doesn’t mean they should be allowed to gorge on whatever they like — it’s okay to tell them they can’t have that second piece of cake. Just keep in mind that forbidding cake altogether will only make them want it more. 

Keep in mind that the big picture is what really counts here. Occasional sweets and treats won’t do your child any harm when balanced with an overall healthy diet. 

 

 

How To Get Your Child Into Reading

If you’re like most parents, you want your child to be happy, healthy, and to do well in school — and this means providing a foundation for good lifelong habits. Reading is one of the habits you should work to develop in your child for a variety of reasons. Research shows that reading on a regular basis has both physical and mental health benefits. In general, those who read experience less stress, have a better vocabulary, and even live longer than their counterparts who don’t make a regular practice of reading.

Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to help a child develop an interest in reading. Here’s what you need to do.

Read With Your Child Every Day

A child’s interest in reading starts to develop before the child actually learns to read. Parents who make a practice of reading to their children every night spark that interest at any early age. Choose books with pictures and fun stories. Although many parents read to their child right before bedtime, reading is an appropriate activity for any time of day. No matter what time you choose, making it something to look forward to helps your child create positive associations. 

Enroll Your Child in a Library Reading Group

Nearly every public library has a reading group for young children. Some have several that are separated according to age. There are some library reading groups that meet every day, while others meet once or twice per week. Find the one that works for your schedule and your child’s age and make it part of your routine. You can also enroll school-age children in summer reading programs.

Make Reading Materials Easily Accessible

As your child grows older, always make sure he or she has access to plenty of reading materials. You can get free library books from public libraries as well as the library at your child’s school. Swapping books with other parents is another good way to provide your child with a diverse supply of reading material. 

Set a Good Example 

Children naturally want to emulate their parents. If your child sees you reading on a regular basis, he or she will most likely follow your example. Discussing the books you are reading with your child will spark their interest and imagination. As your children get older and are capable of reading books on their own, consider setting up a family reading time, where everyone reads silently for 30 minutes. 

Above all, don’t despair if your child is among those who don’t take to reading right away. Some children just learn more quickly than others, but slower learners invariably catch up at some point. Avoid making children feel bad if they aren’t reading at the same level as others — this may cause them to resent reading, which they may later transfer to learning in general. 

 

 

5 Easy Ways to Make Your Garden More Impressive

A garden is more than a collection of plants and flowers. It should be an escape from the world. A place to go to find a little peace, in the midst of chaos.

Creating that kind of oasis doesn’t have to be hard.  And it does not require any kind of special skill. Just a willingness to look at your garden a little differently.

Get started creating a beautiful landscape that your friends and neighbors will envy with these 5 easy ways to make your garden more impressive.

Step # 1:  Make a Statement with Color

Sure, gardens are meant to be colorful, but how can you use that color to make a statement? Here are a few easy tricks:

  • Stay within the same color palette. This does not mean using the same boring colors over and over again. Instead, stay within the same palette with different shades and contrasting hues.
  • Use complementary colors. A pop of unique color here and there will help complement your garden, creating a beautiful rainbow of color to enjoy.
  • Add some variegated foliage. Flowers are not the only colorful plants in a garden. Variegated foliage adds interesting texture too.

Step # 2:  Avoid Clutter

Yes, it’s true, you can have too many plants and flowers in a garden. Keep it simple. The most impressive gardens feature a more streamlined look. Instead of jamming every nook and cranny with plantings, leave some space to make your garden offerings easier to see – and enjoy.

Tip #3:  Offer Seasonal Appeal

Who says you can only enjoy garden offerings in the spring and summer? Think about what is available for every season of the year. Fall foliage can add a beautifully rich backdrop to dying summer plantings.  Be sure to add a few trees and bushes that highlight the rich ness of the season. Winter too offers some beautiful contrast to otherwise dreary months. Look for bushes that change color with the seasons or offer colorful berries during fall and winter to highlight the landscape.

Tip #4: Go Bold

Nothing makes a garden look more impressive with a few bold offerings.  Don’t be afraid to use bushes with bold shapes; tall grasses and flowers of different heights for a more interesting look. Or consider adding a bold piece of art to draw attention and complement your beautiful flowers and plants. Using arches to frame a certain area can also add interest, without taking away from your plantings.

Tip # 5:  Use a Staggered Approach

Nothing is more boring than a garden planted with all straight lines. Add depth and interest to your garden oasis by staggering plantings. Layer grasses, and flowers for a more eclectic and natural look.  This lets your garden look like it has always been there, which is more natural – and interesting.

It doesn’t take a master gardener to create a beautiful landscape that everyone will want to enjoy. Try these 5 easy ways to make a more impressive garden and see what masterpiece you can create in your own backyard. 

Why Are Prices Going Up?

Have you noticed the changing cost of basic necessities? It seems like every time you go to fill up a tank of gas or buy food you are paying more than you did last week. High inflation is catching everyone’s attention, but the question remains: why are the prices going up so much? 

The Pandemic

The coronavirus pandemic, or COVID-19 pandemic, plays a key role in recent global inflation. Since many countries were disrupted by key workers being off sick – or by preventive measures taken by governments, this only added to serious supply chain problems.

Limited Supply of Fossil Fuels

Closing down pipelines and fossil fuel production also plays a critical role in inflation. Since the government put additional regulations on certain businesses or even shut down projects related to fossil fuels, the cost of gas and diesel has increased by roughly 43.6 percent when compared to the previous year. Increased fuel costs result in higher prices on goods.

The limited supply of fossil fuels does not only impact gas prices. It also affects the cost of utilities on a home, food on store shelves, and even furniture and bedding. Since gas and the byproducts of making gas are used in a variety of household products and items, you can expect higher prices at the store.

Problems in the Supply Chain

Supply chain problems that began with the pandemic contribute to inflation due to simple supply and demand. Since the supply chain for many goods is delayed by months, it is harder to find certain items in stores. The high demand for the items combined with the limited supply results in higher prices for the products. 

The War in Ukraine

The war between Russia and Ukraine contributes to inflation in the United States and around the world. Since the war started, Russia and Ukraine have not been part of the global market in relation to commodities. 

In the case of Russia, the war has resulted in lower supplies of metals, oil, and gas. Since the country was a major supplier of fuel and metals, it is causing a low global supply and driving up prices. Ukraine is a major supplier of wheat and corn, which is driving up food prices. 

While the limited supply of commodities plays a role in inflation, it is not the only problem caused by the war. The war in Ukraine is complicating the supply chain throughout Europe. It is amplifying the problems with the global supply chain that started with the pandemic by slowing down the transportation of goods. 

Inflation is a complex problem that stems from multiple factors. Regulations from the government, changes to the tax code, increased government debt, the global pandemic, and a fuel shortage play a role in the high inflation rates. By understanding the cause of increasing prices, it is possible to take measures to address the problems and prevent further ballooning in the future.

How To Safeguard Your Health While Flying

Flying has never been something most people look forward to doing. It’s uncomfortable, inconvenient, and even hazardous to your health! According to research, about 20 percent of flyers develop cold or flu symptoms after a flight. But sniffles and a sore throat are a minor inconvenience compared to the more severe health issues that can occur.

Does this mean that you should forget about flying? No. The risk of developing severe health problems due to flying is very low. But, understanding why many people get sick and what you can do to prevent it will help you stay healthy next time you fly. 

Why Do People Get Sick on Planes? 

Despite what you may think, it is not the recycled air that causes post-flight flu. Planes have some of the most advanced air filter technology available. Like anywhere else, most germs on a plane are from surfaces. The long-term exposure to these germs combined with jet lag and lack of sleep can cause your immune system to fail. 

Six Tips For Protecting Yourself While You Are in the Air

Wash your hands frequently. You should be washing your hands regularly anyway, but doing it on a plane is more important. Yes, hand sanitizer can kill germs, but getting up and washing your hands in the bathroom is better. Walking to and from the bathroom gets your blood flowing and can prevent circulatory problems from developing.

Wear a mask. The pandemic may be easing, but that doesn’t mean you have to give up your mask. Even if you are vaccinated, masks can help protect against many common viruses you can pick up on board. Even if the air is cleaned frequently, it won’t stop the guy behind you from coughing on you throughout a six-hour flight. 

Wipe down your fold-down tray. Many of the germs you encounter on a flight are right in front of you. Tray tables are some of the dirtiest places onboard. By giving it a good wipe as soon as you sit down, you will eliminate a significant source of germs. 

Hands out of the seat-back pocket. A seat-back pocket is an excellent place for you to store your laptop or shove a water bottle. But it was also a convenient place for the passenger before you to throw used tissues and other items you don’t want to touch. 

Stay hydrated. Severe dehydration can cause a decrease in the immune system, kidney damage, and breathing problems. Stay hydrated. That means drinking a small glass drink of water every thirty minutes while in the air. If you are on a long-haul flight, you may consider packing some electrolyte powder in your carry-on.  

Move (as much as you can). Getting the blood flowing is a great way to stave off the aches and pains of flying. Besides walking up and down the aisle, try doing some stretching and isometric exercises in your seat.

 

 

 

The Insider’s Guide: 5 Ways to Get to Know the Real Scotland

Heading to Scotland? Some tourists are perfectly happy to get the full tourist experience, but if you prefer a more authentic visit, your itinerary may look a bit different. Check out five ways to get to know the real Scotland. 

1. Visit a few lochs besides Loch Ness 

A loch is simply a lake or body of water that is at least mostly surrounded by land. And, Scotland is known for some of the most gorgeous lochs you can imagine. If you want to get to know the real Scotland, however, there are lochs far more rewarding than Loch Ness. Loch Ness is no doubt a nice place to visit—hey, who wouldn’t want a chance to catch sight of Nessie (aka The Loch Ness Monster)? But, if you want to set your eyes on some even more picturesque bodies of Scotland water, consider others like Loch Maree in the Highlands or Loch Awe near Dalmally. 

2. Check out small towns outside the main tourist attractions 

Certain Scottish cities are known as major tourist attractions, such as Edinburgh, Glasgow, and Aberdeenshire. These cities no doubt have a lot to do and see: museums, castles, bus tours, you name it. However, if you want to get an inside look at what life in Scotland is truly like, trek your way to some smaller, less-visited towns. Pittenweem, for example, is a seaside village north of Edinburgh. Here, you can stroll the streets, check out the fishing harbor, and buy fresh fish right from the local fishermen. 

3. Grab food from smaller cafés and eateries 

Scotland has some pretty amazing food, even if names like Cullen skink and neeps and tatties can sound a little odd. You’ll have no trouble finding amazing dining opportunities in just about any town. But food favorites can also vary from town to town. So, if you want something a little more cozy and local, check out the smaller cafes and eateries. For example, The Ceilidh Place in Ullapool is a quaint little place with a menu full of local ingredients. 

4. Book a stay in a bed and breakfast 

Scotland is full of inns and hostels, both of which can give you a chance to mingle with other travelers. However, if you’re looking to get to know the real Scotland, book a stay in a bed and breakfast instead. These more private accommodations put you in a residential environment in an authentic Scotland home. Plus, guests at B&Bs are more likely to be locals, and you get the chance to enjoy some local home-cooked food. 

5. Check in at neighborhood pubs 

Local pubs tend to be full of friendly locals. While some pubs are hot spots for tourists, such as Deacon Brodies Tavern in Edinburgh, the best way to find and mingle with the locals is to visit those establishments that are a little less noteworthy. You can find small pubs tucked into many neighborhoods in Scotland, and most are not all that large or flashy. Just the same, walk in and order a dram and the locals will likely strike up a conversation. 

How to Avoid Treating Yourself as an Object – and Why This Is So Important

Do you objectify yourself? Most people would automatically say no. Nevertheless, treating yourself as an object instead of a person is easy to do if you’re not paying attention. If you treat yourself as an object, you live your life with the idea that something about your physical appearance is your means of obtaining something or achieving a goal. For example, you are attractive, and this is your means of maintaining a romantic relationship. The problem with self-objectification is if you fail to achieve, this can lead to self-loathing, shame, and self-deprecation. So, how do you avoid treating yourself as an object? Below are five good tips. 

1. Recognize your worth beyond what you look like

If you are only ever acknowledging the value of your physical appearance, it is easy to forget to appreciate everything else you bring to the table. Think about the skills you carry and why people should value you. Maybe you’re highly compassionate, a hard worker, or goal-oriented and driven to achieve. These things will still exist no matter your outward appearance. 

2. Respect yourself as a complex human being 

Humans are complicated in every respect. We have emotions, joys, frustrations, nuances, and unique personalities. When you objectify yourself, the complexities that make you human often get viewed as inconveniences. Maybe you don’t usually show emotion for fear it makes you less attractive, or, perhaps you’re hesitant about getting silly because you think it makes you look less distinguished. The more you can allow yourself to be authentic in your own skin without fear of changing physical perceptions, the better off you will be. 

3. Refuse to let others treat you as an object 

If others are treating you as only a means to an end, or an object that delivers only what they want, you can slip into the role of the same mindset. For example, if someone only wants to hang out with you because you are attractive, this is pure objectification. Remove people from your life that only look at you as someone who can do something or be something that benefits them. 

4. Dial down on the self-criticism 

We are all our own worst critics. If you are treating yourself as an object, you are likely criticizing yourself over things that you truly can’t control. For instance, if you gain a few pounds and can’t wear your fave jeans, you can be really hard on yourself to a point that you feel a lot of shame and guilt. When you recognize the link between objectification and self-criticism, you may be able to dial back negative self-talk that you truly don’t deserve. 

5. Allow yourself to feel unattractive 

Some people spend so much time and energy keeping up appearances that being in any other state feels uncomfortable. Do what you can to change this tendency. Try running errands without full makeup or visiting a friend in your gym clothes instead of a suit and tie. Gaining a bit of comfort in your own skin without physical enhancement can help you find appreciation for who you are instead of what you look like. You will start to see that people can treat you well even when your outward look is not where you think it should be. 

5 Signs You’re Becoming a Genuine Coffee Snob

Upwards of 150 million Americans drink at least one cup of coffee every day. While that’s stunningly more than half the adult population, too many people drink subpar coffee straight out of a can. If you’re reading this article, you likely take a bit more care when it comes to your coffee, and this is likely something that’s significantly improved your quality of life. Are you becoming a coffee snob, though? If most or all of the following are true for you, you might just have crossed the line into full blown Java elitism.

1: You’re Willing to Spend Over $20 for Less than One Pound

The average cost of a pound of coffee hovered around $6, even with inflation in the spring of 2022. That’s a relatively small price to pay for a hot caffeinated beverage before heading off to work. So, why would anyone consider spending more than four times that amount for less? The answer is: Quality.

To the coffee connoisseur, bulk, canned, and freeze-dried, products are akin to fast food. It can rev up the body with energy at the risk of your health and developing the palate of a hog. If you think paying top dollar for good coffee is worth every penny, welcome to the club.

2: You Know (and care) About the Difference Between Expresso and Espresso

Coffee aficionados deftly know and use technical terms all their own. Only a plebeian would call the delicate warm espresso drink “expresso.” The moment hearing this mispronunciation irks you enough to correct someone, you just might be a coffee snob.

3: A Barista Knows You by Name and Your Preferred Beverage

Much like barflies, coffee drinkers also become regulars. When someone frequents the local watering hole, the bartender gets to know them and their beer, mixed drink, or shot, of choice. A bartender typically knows their limit as well. Frequenting a coffee bar mirrors this phenomenon. The barista will typically greet the coffee enthusiast by name and brew up “the usual.” But if the barista cuts you off or takes away your keys, you are definitely a coffee snob.

4: You’ve Driven More than 25 Miles for a Cup of Coffee

Driving more than 25 miles for a select coffee requires some uncommon calculations. The person must decide the round trip of upwards of 1 hour is worth the time. They have to decide the gasoline or electric car recharging expense is reasonable against the experience.

Given that a cup of even good coffee runs only a few dollars, this process stands outside the ordinary way most people think about time-money usage. If you think driving a fair distance just to have one coffee and then return home makes sense, it’s entirely likely you’re a coffee snob.

5: You’ve Attended a Cupping

For those still aspiring to become coffee snobs, a cupping is an event where people experience new blends, bean types, and discuss the flavors and notes of each brew. Everyday people make dinner reservations to avoid wait times or try an exclusive restaurant. Coffee snobs attend cuppings where elite drinkers gather to share knowledge and integrate beans into a personalized blend.

A cupping typically lasts 2-4 hours, and attendees pay a premium to participate. If you haven’t attended a cupping, it may be the next logical step to evolving into a coffee snob.

5 Positive Steps to Better Mental Health

Good mental health is so important! Maintaining good mental health contributes to your happiness and personal well-being. Ultimately, having good mental health can help you maintain good quality of life. Good mental health doesn’t always come naturally – many people must work hard to achieve and maintain good mental health. Below are five things you can do to enjoy good mental health. 

1. Make Friends

Humans are social creatures who need to see other people in order to be happy. Making friends and maintaining in-person social connections gives many people a sense of fulfillment as well as happiness.

Making friends isn’t something that happens without putting some effort in, especially if you’re an adult. Some suggestions:

  • Get involved in community activities and social groups.
  • Download and start using friendship apps.
  • Make casual connections with people and then pursue deeper relationships by talking about commonalities and making an effort to get together.  

2. Exercise and Stay Active

Getting regular exercise can improve your mood and your self-confidence. It’s also good for your physical health, which is directly tied to your mental health. Some tips to make exercising a regular part of your life:

  • Make an exercising routine. Set aside specific days and times to exercise. If you have a hard time holding yourself accountable to your exercise routine, get an exercise buddy who will exercise with you. 
  • Start slowly and build up to a more intense exercise routine if you’re out of shape.
  • Exercise naturally throughout the day. For example, if you’re going to a store that you can easily reach by foot, then walk instead of taking a car.

3. Meditate

Meditating helps lessen anxiety and gives you a sense of peace and tranquility. Meditating is easy to do and even just a little meditating throughout the day can make a big difference in your life.

Set aside time each day to meditate, either at the beginning of the day or near the end. If meditating doesn’t appeal to you, consider another activity that focuses on mindfulness and creating a sense of peace. Yoga is a good activity for this.

4. Talk to a Therapist

Therapy isn’t just for people who struggle with their mental health. Therapy can help everyone! Talking to a therapist can help you work out everyday problems that cause unhappiness and uncertainty. Find a therapist who offers good advice and feedback when you discuss everyday issues. Find a therapist and build a good relationship slowly. 

5. Protect Your Leisure Time

Working too hard is bad for your mental health. Give yourself time to relax at the end of every day, whether you’re reading a book, talking to friends, watching television or turning on a movie. Protecting your leisure time will help you relax and alleviate feelings of anxiety. 

Check In With Yourself Regularly

Taking time to check in with your own mental status on a regular basis can help you gauge the state of your mental health. Check in with yourself on a regular basis by asking yourself how you’re doing. If you’re feeling sad or unhappy, ask yourself why. Work through these issues with your therapist as well. By performing these regular check ins, you can help maintain overall positive mental health.